We are only two weeks away from Christmas! Can you believe it? If you are a parent then you have likely already received your share of the following over the last weeks:
“what should I get ____ for Christmas?”;
“Do you think he’d like this toy?”; “I saw this giant ____ and I bet she would just love it!”
As family and friends begin wanting to shower your kiddos with gifts this holiday season, it may begin to feel overwhelming and stressful.
If you are anything like I was two years ago, you may even feel bad for wanting to tell family and friends “thanks but no thanks!”.
It is hard when you know the gifts are coming from a place of love but your children don’t need any new toys, you don’t want any new toys, or perhaps you just don’t have
Now don’t get me wrong, I love a good, quality toy as much as the next mama. In fact, in my previous three
But while I love watching my little ones explore the world of play with toys, I will admit, too many toys can easily become overwhelming! Even the most well thought out, quality toys can begin to accumulate and create clutter.
The good news is that toys and Christmas gifts don’t have to be a source of holiday stress this year! You can reduce the number of physical gifts, but still give to your children hours of fun and adventure simply by investing in EXPERIENCES rather than more toys.
We’ve seen this recommendation everywhere, and for good reason. Adding experiences to a child’s Christmas list in place of more toys, benefits not only the kids but also us as parents.
The Benefits of Experiences over More Stuff
We’ve all seen on Facebook or heard from friends the annoyance of too many toys, and kids that are “bored” despite so many toys.
The internet today allows us the ability to see and learn about practically anything in this world with the swipe of a finger, but the downside is that too many people have forgotten how to truly experience these things. People are instead buried behind a phone or a computer screen watching others do it.
By including experiences on your children’s Christmas list, the benefits will last much longer than the mess of wrapping paper on Christmas morning. Here are just a few of the benefits of experiences over more stuff
- Time together as a family. Experiences encourage folks to come out from behind their screens and take in the event or world around them. Together you and your family can try or experience something entirely new.
- Lasting memories. Think back to your own childhood. What memories come to mind first? Is it the doll you got for your fifth birthday? Likely it is the times spent with family, friends, and the people you love.
- New experiences. You have the ability to show your children different parts of this big, wonderful world we live in. By purchasing experiences over things you can show them art work, animals, sports and worlds they may not know exist. You may even lead them to finding a new hobby or interest that could shape them for the rest of their life.
- Less clutter and less stress. This one is pretty easy to understand. Fewer toys laying around means fewer toys to clean up later. And less stress for parents when the questions of what to buy come up.
Life is full of so many amazing things to see and do and giving experiences provides children with a chance to try something new. Here are a list of experiences with options sure to be enjoyed by all ages!
25 “Experience” Gift Ideas:
- Zoo Membership
- Museum Membership. Art museums, children’s museums, science museums. Nearly all museums have something to offer.
- Tickets to a sporting event. You could get tickets to a favorite team or maybe find a new sport to go watch.
- Single day passes to the zoo or museums. Don’t know if your kiddos will enjoy the zoo or a museum membership? A single day visit is a great way to try something new!
- Cooking class
- Music lessons
- Tickets to a Disney, PBS, or other puppet theater stage show
- Summer camp tuition
- Ice or roller skating
- Rock Climbing: I was surprised to learn that many rock climbing places have patrons as young as four or five!
- Pool pass for the summer
- Scuba lessons: beginner lessons can begin as early at 10 years old
- Tickets to the movies
- Art classes
- A real train ride to a new town
- Aquarium tickets
- Comedy show tickets
- State Park pass or day pass: Get out in nature and climb, camp, hike, and explore. Maybe pack a picnic lunch and make a day of it.
- Passes to drive go-karts
- Putt-Putt passes
- Tickets to see a musical or Broadway show
- Visit to a historical town or day of historical reenactment
- Amusement park tickets
- Concert tickets
- Animal or critter encounters: These are usually at zoos or preserves and can be a great learning experience for kids.
Changing one’s mindset from “stuff” to “experiences” can really change more than just this holiday season. So if you are struggling with what to offer
Complete Knot to Nest Holiday Gift Series
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